Brandi Nichole McCurdy departed this life at the age of 41 years old. She was born October 2, 1982, to Carin and Vernon McCurdy in Newton, KS. She accepted Christ into her life as she was a true Christian.
Brandi is loved by so many people. But most of all Brandi loved her family. Even through down times, she might get mad, but she would never stop loving her family no matter what. She loved her daughter Echo so very much. Not a day went by her daughter wasn’t mentioned. She would always say I am so proud of Echo. Her grandkids Ella and Emma were her whole heart and loved them so very much. She would protect the ones she loved even if she was mad at them. She was her own self, she had her own slang, for example: I miss your freaking face, I love you big, or she would laugh if she thought something was funny and she would say, “your stupid”. But in a nice way. There were so many, but it was the way she said. Let’s talk about her laugh. No one had a laugh like Brandi. You always knew when she was around without seeing her just by her laugh. Brandi didn’t care what people thought of her. The only time that she did care is if it involved her loved ones. She made sarcastic remarks after everything you said to her which made the conversation interesting. She would always make you laugh and even harder when she started laughing. We can go on and on about how much she is a joy to be around but the memories that our family have made in 41 years of her life will live on and never be forgotten.
Brandi’s Fiancé Jason was her rock, and she would say. She loved him more than anyone she had ever had a relationship with. The kind of love she had for him was different. She called him her husband and she would always say, “That is my man, my rock, my husband. And when he isn’t around, she says how lonely she felt without him, depressed cause she misses him and always plans to surprise him when he comes home. They did everything together. They had true love, and that kind of love will always live on through Jason’s heart and memories they have shared. They shared a dog together that she loved so much. Sam, she loved that dog.
Brandi had hobbies or wait should we call them obsessions or even fetishes. Pens, she had more pens than anyone she knew. Every color, and style. She would know if a pen was taken. And she will say, “did you take my pen or pens? As her daughter Echo would say. “NO, laughing about it because they are sitting in a drawer. She loved her pens. Notebooks, where to get started on that one. She loved writing. She will just sit there and write what comes to her head even if it is someone’s name. She will write something little on one page and start a new one or a new notebook. Purses, she has purses. Lots of them. She loves her some purses, and most of them have something in them. Bags, little or big she must have them. And of course, most of them have stuff in them as well. And remind you she never gets rid of them. She keeps them all. Clothes, she has so many clothes she can have her own clothes store, but she just adds on to what she already has.
Brandi passed away Thursday May 30th at 4:16pm. She died from Toxic Pancreatitis. She was very sick. She had been dealing with this illness for a couple of months and as she would tell her family she was tired of being in pain. She was tired of being sick all the time. She didn’t have energy and she just wanted to sleep. Well Brandi, you are now free from being in pain, sick, and you are in a better place. You will live on through memories and you will be missed terribly, as you would say we will miss your face. We love you BIG! We will see you again in another life!
Condolences may be left for the family at www.bakerfhvc.com.